Do you notice how blossom and flowers don’t ask “is it the right time to bloom?” or “What happens if no one likes me when I bloom?” They just get on and do their stuff and show the world how beautiful they are.

They don’t worry if they might fail at flowering. They don’t have any angst, or nervousness or doubt about showing the world who they really are. They are prepared to show up, and strut their stuff.


Why do we have such fears and insecurities in shining our light? In showing the world who we really are?

Too often we have these secret dreams and desires that we don’t really tell anyone about. We might not even admit them to ourselves, or our partners. We hide them deep inside us and feel so embarrassed to even acknowledge them.

For too many years, I hid my dreams and desires under layers of insecurities and fears. In building my business, I am gaining the confidence to talk about my dreams, and go for them. It’s not always easy to put yourself out there, and be vulnerable and admit what you want.

Having a coach has helped me flick the switch on a lot of my doubts and false beliefs…  Whether it’s I’m not good enough, I’m not pretty enough, I’m too fat…  Or I fail at everything. There’s all this stuff that holds us back from achieving what we want and going for it.

The only person standing in your way is you. Are you prepared to knock NEGATIVE YOU out of the way to go for the life that you want, and you dream of?

Who do you really want to be?


  • What if I wasn’t afraid, what would I do?
  • Imagine you wake up tomorrow and a miracle has occurred… describe your day, what would you be doing? 
  • What dreams and desires are you hiding under the covers? If you had the courage to share those dreams with the world. Imagine what you could achieve.

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